Fiancé Insecurities

Heather wrote in the sitch because her fiancé is having some trust issues. Heather maintains contact with her ex husband because they share a daughter, and he recently sent her a picture of their daughter. Fiancé took this the wrong way and perceived it as a romantic reach. Heather did admit that her ex husband lingers a bit long during drop offs, and she could draw more clear lines in their relationship, but she wanted to know if she was in the wrong for having this much contact. Literally everyone said that the fiancé needs to get over this. Child happiness is paramount, and the fact that the parents are getting along bodes well for the child. Driving a wedge between Heather and her ex husband is not in the best interest of the child, and it seems like that’s what Mr. Fiancé wants to happen. The ex will be in her life virtually forever, so this is something that Fiancé needs to accept sooner rather than later. A surprising amount of people were saying Heather should reconsider the engagement if the new guy is already this insecure about the relationship. Remember people, we only have a portion of the facts. There could always be factors that we don’t know about. Whatever the case may be, it’s best to hold off on making hasty decisions!